Is there a specific way you need to speak on thai-friendly?

[Jim78]

Hello I'm 46, I'm not that ugly, and my profile pictures look pretty good. I've been matched with countless girls who seem to like me enough to press the button,  but as soon as I start talking to them they clam up and say stuff like "hi" on loop or repeat the same thing over and over like bots. Well I suppose maybe they are bots lol.. but I was told it was a decent site to find ,if not a girlfriend, at least some friends to hang out with. 

Even the freelancers don't speak much. Am I missing the obvious?

[JVHyatt]

“How much for ST”.

[ricktoronto]

I just ask if they're looking for a relationship (pass) or not and ask for their Line ID. Any girl will move to Line because there's a slim chance she's got Premium and unlimited messages. And the one per 10 minutes is tedious.

Or and give them your Line ID. If you get their ID when you message them, they don't have your ID just your display name. Tip: don't make them identical.

If your vibe is friend to hang out with or relationship you're singing to a small congregation. The former sounds like a cheapo and the latter is not going to appeal to many.

Edited May 15 by ricktoronto

[Jim78]

Thanks guys, this is still all 'New" to me. I guess my "freelancer" radar is terrible because I can never recognize which one is which, and earlier there was a girl who just sent me a 🧐 smiley. So i was like "yo wtf is  🧐  🧐  🧐  🧐 " and she just replied "I'm a freelancer". 😂

Which cracked me up you know, because "i'm a freelancer" is actually proper english grammar, which is more than I can say about 99% of the girls there 😆

Anyways sounds like i'll have a nice life in Bangkok lol

[Jim78]

11 hours ago, JVHyatt said:

“How much for ST”.

☠️I love this forum 🙂

[6534872]

On 5/15/2024 at 12:55 PM, Jim78 said:

Thanks guys, this is still all 'New" to me. I guess my "freelancer" radar is terrible because I can never recognize which one is which, and earlier there was a girl who just sent me a 🧐 smiley. So i was like "yo wtf is  🧐  🧐  🧐  🧐 " and she just replied "I'm a freelancer". 😂

Which cracked me up you know, because "i'm a freelancer" is actually proper english grammar, which is more than I can say about 99% of the girls there 😆

Anyways sounds like i'll have a nice life in Bangkok lol

I did not know freelancers also referred to themselves as freelancers haha 

[Jim78]

1 hour ago, 6534872 said:

I did not know freelancers also referred to themselves as freelancers haha 

I know it's so brilliant!! 🤪 Btw I figured out how to identify them with a very high rate of success: 

The ones that are freelancers have their settings with the tag " looking for men between the age of 30 and 60" . Looks like 60 is the highest bracket there and that's how you know their freelancers because the "good girls" prefer to fish within a max of 5-10 years above their age bracket. 

 

 

[schnytzal]

in Patts, TF girlies are almost all on the game. i basically lead with "short time 1500?" 1500 is 'the magic number' for patts. unless she's obviously older, obviously fat, or desperate, you'll get a response rate of roughly half what you'd get for 1500 (and yes, i did a/b test this LOL).

in Bangkok, i ask straight away if they freelance. over half don't respond at all. some get really mad and make it VERY clear theyr'e not freelancers LOL. the ones that do respond, the 'magic number' is 2000.

if you have special requests, the thing to do is establish short time with the 'magic number' then offer more money for what you want. you may end up paying more than some other schmoe paid fair the same thing but so what? you're more likely to get what you want than if you lead with "can i tie you up, take photos and bareback you for 1,000 baht?" build up to your non-vanilla requests and you'll get more hits.

note that i know very little about LT. i usually seek to avoid it and i'm generally appalled if girlies stick around beyond my wham-bam-thank-you-ma'am, and i have to put out again. occasionally if a girlie is particularly hot or offers a particularly good overnight price i'll take her up on it, but i don't sleep well with someone i just met in the bed. therefore, someone else can advise on the magic number for LT

a fair number of bargirls escorts etc in Bangers are on line looking for 'serious relationship' and many of them mean it. i'd be wary of that situation, as even when they ARE into you, the relationship will be framed in financial terms.

if you're going to raid genpop for a real girlfriend, don't pay her for sex. it's ok to buy dinner and pay date stuff, but as soon as you cross the line into any kind of 'support' or 'help' you're an ATM and that is the most important aspect of the relationship, even with girlies who are NOT on the game and only want to have a nice boyfriend and get married. can't blame 'em Asian guys love this kind of arrangement. these guys look down on hookers but seem to have no problem what's basically a hooker on a long term contract LOL.

[schnytzal]

oh one more thing. i usually skip the ones that say 'hi' in response to every question, but you might try using Google Translate and asking in Thai. it is probably a language issue.

[ricktoronto]

On 5/15/2024 at 6:55 AM, Jim78 said:

Thanks guys, this is still all 'New" to me. I guess my "freelancer" radar is terrible because I can never recognize which one is which, and earlier there was a girl who just sent me a 🧐 smiley. So i was like "yo wtf is  🧐  🧐  🧐  🧐 " and she just replied "I'm a freelancer". 😂

If they're under 40, 95% are, under 30, 98% are and under 25 99.9% are.

[6534872]

10 hours ago, Jim78 said:

I know it's so brilliant!! 🤪 Btw I figured out how to identify them with a very high rate of success: 

The ones that are freelancers have their settings with the tag " looking for men between the age of 30 and 60" . Looks like 60 is the highest bracket there and that's how you know their freelancers because the "good girls" prefer to fish within a max of 5-10 years above their age bracket. 

 

 

good tip!

[6534872]

1 hour ago, schnytzal said:

in Patts, TF girlies are almost all on the game. i basically lead with "short time 1500?" 1500 is 'the magic number' for patts. unless she's obviously older, obviously fat, or desperate, you'll get a response rate of roughly half what you'd get for 1500 (and yes, i did a/b test this LOL).

in Bangkok, i ask straight away if they freelance. over half don't respond at all. some get really mad and make it VERY clear theyr'e not freelancers LOL. the ones that do respond, the 'magic number' is 2000.

if you have special requests, the thing to do is establish short time with the 'magic number' then offer more money for what you want. you may end up paying more than some other schmoe paid fair the same thing but so what? you're more likely to get what you want than if you lead with "can i tie you up, take photos and bareback you for 1,000 baht?" build up to your non-vanilla requests and you'll get more hits.

note that i know very little about LT. i usually seek to avoid it and i'm generally appalled if girlies stick around beyond my wham-bam-thank-you-ma'am, and i have to put out again. occasionally if a girlie is particularly hot or offers a particularly good overnight price i'll take her up on it, but i don't sleep well with someone i just met in the bed. therefore, someone else can advise on the magic number for LT

a fair number of bargirls escorts etc in Bangers are on line looking for 'serious relationship' and many of them mean it. i'd be wary of that situation, as even when they ARE into you, the relationship will be framed in financial terms.

if you're going to raid genpop for a real girlfriend, don't pay her for sex. it's ok to buy dinner and pay date stuff, but as soon as you cross the line into any kind of 'support' or 'help' you're an ATM and that is the most important aspect of the relationship, even with girlies who are NOT on the game and only want to have a nice boyfriend and get married. can't blame 'em Asian guys love this kind of arrangement. these guys look down on hookers but seem to have no problem what's basically a hooker on a long term contract LOL.

thank you for the brain dump. You’re obviously a pro at TF 🙂

It seems like in BKK you can waste a lot of time dancing around with ‘normal’ girls if you’re not up front with what you want