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  1. itsme

    Cialis...wow

    Yes, this is the ad copy of a trustworthy pharmaceutical company. They also have Facebook testimonials, that's how you know they're good and safe and properly tested 🙄 Fun fact about Cadarine:
  2. itsme

    Cialis...wow

    The only side effect I've ever has was a little facial flushing the first time I used it. I also found that getting back in the gym and getting my diet squared away completely negated any need for the drugs. I still have some from my last trip and occasionally take one purely for recreational purposes. There's a certain novelty that comes with getting hard with a shift the the breeze.
  3. There's a lot less selection and a far higher proportion of normal girls looking for love, not work in Chiang Mai. Otherwise it works the same.
  4. I had wanted to try them, but had a hard time finding them in Thailand. I finally found them at 7-11 in Singapore. They were a bit disappointing. I found I preferred the Okamoto 003 (my favourite condom), which is commonly available in Thailand. It may have been a sizing issue though. I got them in regular, which is 53mm and the size I use in the 003 that fits me perfectly. They felt on the tight side so I'd like to find them in large, which is a 56mm. I couldn't find those in Singapore though.
  5. I guess you'll have to sit down and have a conversation with yourself about how much risk you're willing to accept to get the rewards that come with seeing sex workers. 1 in 6 people have herpes. It's not the end of the world. However, if the anxiety of the possibility of catching it is impacting your ability to enjoy yourself then it might be best to pursue a more serious relationship and reduce your risk.
  6. Fucking is risky, period. Everything that is fun or worth doing is. If you want to fuck you will be taking a risk. You can reduce thecrisk, but there is no way to avoid it altogether. Two bodies in close proximity are going to share whatever they might be carrying. Only you can decide of that risk is worth the reward for you. If you want no risk then stick to handies at massage places.
  7. Sounds like Heather Harmon. I used to watch a ton of her back when I was a teenager. She's still out there making movies and she does not look good these days.
  8. Good job! Now that you've gotten over that hump it'll only get better from here. While I continue to have no moral objection to porn, after nearly 30 years of use I've come to the conclusion that it's pretty much the most detrimental thing imaginable to male sexual performance. Cutting it out has made a dramatic improvement in my sex life.
  9. Work T-Shirt in MBK Mall (they also have a booth at Chatuchak Market) has some really cool and unique designs. I stop in every time I'm in Bangkok.
  10. itsme

    Cialis...wow

    I've been back from Thailand for around 3 months and was not super happy with my sex drive or performance (especially after a very disappointing experience with an escort here at home) so I decided to make a couple changes about 6 weeks ago. I decided to get back in the gym and to quit using porn. The difference has been dramatic. I used to be a powerlifter but got away from the gym when covid hit. I remained active, but switched entirely to cardio taking up cycling, running, and cross-country skiing (I have really let my fitness show since last fall though). I've been running one of my old strength programs and seen results (I've also been running 20-25 km per week, because cardio is important too and I like it). I would say my erections have come back to about 95% of what I get after dropping a 20mg Cialis. I have a lot more sex drive, and I have plenty of spontaneous erections also (which had pretty much disappeared). My blood pressure has dropped more than 15 points across the board (currently 111/62). I notice changes changes to my musculature because I'm quite experienced and sensitive to that sort of thing, but I haven't been at it long enough that the casual observer would pick up on it. The women have noticed though, I have been getting a LOT more female attention (likely because I'm feeling better and carrying myself with a lot more confidence). I've even noticed that my bald spot has started growing in a bit and my nails are growing much faster also. The gym has been absolutely magical for me and I attribute that to a couple things. First, lifting heavy increases testosterone. A lot of what I'm seeing looks a lot like if I were to be on TRT. Second, I have somewhere to go with my stress. For reasons I'm not getting into the last 5 years have been among the worst of my life (contrary to the image I craft on social media), it's why I go hide out in Thailand from time to time. Being able to put that negative energy into the iron has been tremendous. I've also quit using porn. Ever since I figured out my penis's second use about 30 years ago I've been an avid porn user. There have been definite benefits to cutting it out. Porn dick/death grip (something I've struggled wth off and on for as long as I've been having sex) has vanished, sensitivity has greatly increased, as has desire. I still masturbate regularly, but I do it when I'm actually turned on instead of out of boredom. I'm a lot more in touch with myself (pardon the pun 🤣) and conce traying on the sensations that I'm feeling rather than the visual stimulation of 30 porn clips to get off. I feel like I'm past the need for Cialis. I might still pop one from time to time as a recreational drug (you just can't quite get that level of intensity naturally) but thanks to some lifestyle changes I'm confident going into any sexual situation without any pharmaceutical assistance now.
  11. itsme

    Cialis...wow

    If I had that kind of money to burn I would try this just out of curiosity. I've definitely been developing an interest in biohacking/anti-aging/health preservation recently and there's some interesting potential there.
  12. If you are having good success masturbating without external stimulus the I would go for it following the advice I gave above. It's a process, not an on/off switch. You're going to have to feel it out as you go.
  13. One thing to note with the ThaiFriendly girls is that they are extremely busy. I was in bed with one once when she made the mistake of briefly opening the app. That showed her online and the flood of messages from desperate, horny dudes was immediate. So don't get too offended if a girl doesn't reply or isn't much for conversation
  14. Getting past porn dick/death grip is a process (one I'm familiar with) and it'll take more than a week. There are a couple exercises you might try that I've found to be useful. First, when masturbating change up your technique, we all have an "old reliable" that we use all the time. Avoid that. Second, again when masturbating, try to concentrate on and "get in touch" with the sensations down there rather than conjuring up some fantasy in your head. Being more aware of yourself will make you better with a partner too. Now you've had some issues so you'll probably be in your head about it and that might cause you trouble. If you are going to keep going the P4P route then find a ThaiFriendly freelancer or go to one of the fuck shop "massage" places (not one that pretends to be a legitimate massage shop) and book a longer session (at least an hour, 90 minutes even better). Tell them you want to go slow and having the time to do so will take some of the pressure off. Don't be in a rush, get to know the girl a little and enjoy her company. A lot of this will depend on the particular girl, but laying out what you want in advance and having a good session will go a long way toward pressing the reset button for you. I don't recommend a fiwfans/sideline girl for this. I'm sure there are good, chill ones out there, but on average they tend to be a lot more businesslike and want you to get off and get out as fast as possible. That's not what you want. You are quite new to sex and have a lot to learn. It's always best to relax and enjoy the whole experience rather than just chasing the nut. It's pretty normal to have some pain when she's licking the tip of your dick. We all have different sensitivity levels and that part can be extremely sensitive, especially if you have an intact foreskin. Also the tongue is a very powerful muscle and can even be abrasive. Some girls use it too agressively without realizing it. Just ask her to back off or do something different.
  15. Classic death grip/porn dick There's no need to stop masturbating altogether, but only do it when you genuinely feel the urge, not just because you're bored or sad or whatever. Most importantly lay off the porn. Porn is so overstimulating that when you're accustomed to it it can make finishing with a partner impossible. No woman can provide the variety and level of stimulation that watching 20 porn clips while you jerk off with a grip that's perfectly tuned to you can. The likelihood that you have low T at 23 is extremely low. Unless you have some serious symptoms getting that tested is probably a waste of your time. I might get some pushback on this one on the forum but you're 23 and you've had a girlfriend so you're probably not totally inept with girls. Go chase some legitimate ones. You can definitely get laid in Bangkok without paying for it. You'll find you'll have a better time with someone you've actually worked for and made a connection with.
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